I am scared of him, is this normal?

I am in a new relationship that started online and we are planning our first intimate moment. He lives several states away and he is flying in to see me. We have been talking and sexting for a while and it has gotten to the point where we really want to see each other. However, I think he is expecting me to be seriously sexually experienced, which I am not. I am usually very submissive sexually and I think he expects me to be aggressive. I don't know what to do. He is coming soon and I am scared that he may have too high expectations of me. I do not want to disappoint him. I have tried to watch porn and instructional DVD's but I am not a visual learner, so they didn't help at all.



I don't know what to do. Please help. Be kind. Thanks in advance.I am scared of him, is this normal?
As Jay said, be yourself. Don't try to be someone or something that you are not because that will never do for you or any guy that you are with. Experience with others counts for nothing. It's the experiences you have with each other that count.





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Just be honest with him and let him know that your not that experienced but your willing to learn. Also planning to have sex...its not going to be that special because it is "planned". When you plan something then that means your expecting something up to your standards and if it doesnt happen the way you envisioned it then you will be disappointed versus letting it "naturally" happen...you wont be disappointed because it was never planned.I am scared of him, is this normal?
First off, Be careful, be very careful. There are tons of problems with online meetings, and relationships. Run a background check on him, and search marriage records prior to committing to a meeting in public. I would strongly suggest that you back off from the sexual side of a meeting on the first time you meet. I wonder how he got the impression that you were experienced, and agressive if you are not. You must have sexted that impression, and if you can text it that way, you can pull it off in person. The fact that the headline, reads "I am scared of him,.... speaks volumes.
Be yourself. If he can't like you for who you are , you will see in time it is best to not even invest the time. Give him a chance though. Anyone who idealizes us to be something we are not we can never please.



Good luckI am scared of him, is this normal?
perhaps explore your more aggressive side. I'm not suggesting anything extreme, but perhaps it's an opportunity to understand your sexuality in a new way. oh yes, and RELAX!
This is normal girl, so dont worry and be yourself, try to seduce him with your dress and give him the time of his life....RELAX and ENJOY the moments babe
Be yourself, he might surprise you. If he doesn't theres plenty of other people out there for you.
be natural. be aware. make sure that a good friend knows about him. have some friends meet him. be safe .
This is what happens when people tell lies on those sites. You brought this on yourself. Your only way out is to tell the truth before he gets there and let him decide if he still wants to visit you. Otherwise you might be in for a really bad time. Men get angry if you tease them sexually.



Next time, tell the truth on those sites. That way you get someone who wants you for who you are instead of wanting someone that you are not.
Hummm is this supposed to be a serious romance? Did you lead him on while on the internet? Or talk dirty or what? Dont you think you should get to know each other in person before you jump in the sack. Is it love or sex? Phone sex? Be yourself. Worry about yourself, you dont know this person well enough to really worry about disappointing him and if he doesnt understand, he is not worthing having in your life. I used to meet people on the internet. Most of the time here is almost aways sex they want not a relationship so if he is different.... Good luck .....

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